St. Sylvester's Church| Medford, NY

The Sacrament of Baptism

The Sacrament of Baptism is the defining moment in the life of the Christian. It celebrates a powerful union with our Savior, Jesus Christ. It is a statement of commitment that identifies and connects the individual with the Catholic faith.

  • Baptisms are celebrated approximately 30 times a year on Sunday afternoons. However, please check with the Parish Center before making any other plans.
  • During July and August Baptisms begin at 1:30 PM. During the rest if the year they begin at 2:00 PM.
  • Contact the Parish Center to begin the preparation process for Baptism.
  • You will be sent an information packet, which outlines the necessary steps in planning a baptism.
  • Be diligent in following through on all requirements, no baptism date can be set until all paperwork is finalized.
  • A copy of the birth certificate is necessary before a baptism certificate can be issued. All information on the baptism certificate must appear exactly as it is on the birth certificate. No names can be added, deleted, or changed on a baptism certificate.
Parents must participate in a Baptism Preparation evening. These evenings are generally offered on the first Friday of the month. Additional evenings may also be offered during the spring. Godparents are encouraged to attend this evening.

As the presentation evening includes a special prayer of blessing and anointing, we ask that you also bring the baby.


Godparents

The role of the godparent is a special honor that has a specific role. Most parents choose a person to be a godparent because he or she is very dear to them. The individual is deeply respected and the parents want their child to be guided and influenced by his or her life. In addition to these qualities the church also specifies the godparent must be a living example of faith. Their commitment to church is evident in their life. In light of this strong connection to church the following requirements and guidelines are necessary for one to be a godparent

  • Only one godparent is necessary. If you choose to have two, one must be a man, the other a woman. (You cannot have two godmothers).
  • A godparent must be a baptized and confirmed Catholic.
  • A godparent must be at least sixteen years old.
  • A godparent must have received the sacrament of Confirmation.
  • Proof of Baptism and Confirmation of a godparent must be provided.
  • A baptized member of another Christian denomination (such as Lutheran) may serve as a Christian witness. However, there cannot be two Christian witnesses. You may have one Christian witness and one godparent.
  • A non-baptized person (Jewish, Muslim, etc.) may not serve as a godparent or a Christian witness.
  • A Catholic who has not received Confirmation may not serve as a godparent or a Christian witness.
  • Once the Baptism takes place the godparent(s) are permanent and irrevocable. A godparent cannot be removed from church records. A person may not be baptized a second time for the sake of gaining different godparents.
  • There are the rules or Canon Law of the Catholic Church. Please contact the Parish Center if you have specific questions or concerns. The Diocese of Rockville Centre can also provide information about godparents. They may be reached at (516) 678-5800.
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